What Is the Legacy You’re Building?
November often invites reflection. The pace of life slows a little, the trees shed what they no longer need, and the air carries a quiet that makes space for deeper thought. It’s a natural time to consider what we hold onto and what we leave behind.
When we talk about legacy, it’s easy to think of it as something distant, something measured at the end of a life. But legacy isn’t only about what remains when we’re gone. It’s also about the influence we’re creating right now, often in ways we don’t notice.
Legacy lives in the small, ordinary moments.
Legacy lives in the small, ordinary moments. It’s in how we treat people, the tone we use when we speak, and the attention we give to what matters most. It’s in the effort we make to keep showing up for work, for relationships, and for ourselves, even when things feel hard.
Sometimes, legacy takes the shape of consistency, being someone others can count on. Sometimes it’s courage, standing up for what’s right when it would be easier not to. And often, it’s kindness, the kind that leaves a person feeling seen, understood, and valued.
These actions rarely make headlines, but they leave quiet marks that last far longer than we realize.
Our legacy grows out of what we believe in and how we live those beliefs through action. The values we choose to live by — honesty, generosity, curiosity, respect — become the threads that others remember us by.
Every decision, large or small, becomes part of that pattern. How we handle disappointment, how we celebrate others’ success, how we respond when no one’s watching, all of these moments build the story of who we are.
Our legacy grows out of what we believe in and how we live those beliefs through action.
Sometimes we inherit parts of our legacy. We carry forward family values, traditions, or lessons passed down from people who influenced us. But as adults, we also get to decide which parts we’ll continue and which we’ll set down. We can shape our legacy intentionally, choosing what we want to add to the story.
It can be easy to put “legacy” in the category of later, something to think about once we’ve achieved more, earned more, or done more. But the truth is, our legacy is already unfolding in the everyday.
It’s present in the way we make people feel after a conversation. It’s visible in the effort we put into our communities, our work, and our families. It’s in how we handle change, how we apologize, how we learn, and how we grow.
Legacy is built moment by moment, in real time.
We can shape our legacy intentionally, choosing what we want to add to the story.
Legacy doesn’t have to be a heavy idea. It’s really an invitation, a chance to pause and ask yourself what kind of mark you want to leave in the spaces you touch.
So take a moment to reflect:
What do you want your legacy to be?
And how are you living it today?
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I have coached and mentored individuals, and facilitated small groups for over 30 years. I am a strong proponent of walking the walk and talking the talk. When I know something works, I like to pass it on to others!
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About Heather O ‘Reilly
I have coached and mentored individuals, and facilitated small groups for over 30 years. I am a strong proponent of walking the walk and talking the talk. When I know something works, I like to pass it on to others!
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